How do you deal with bitter "babymamas"
I personally understand that some are hurt and it may take them a while to realize how amazing of a person I am. I know that I will be an amazing friend to her because I know that she can use it and because we're family. I genuinely want the mother of my mans children to be mentally, spiritually, emotionally, physically, and financially healthy for the sake of OUR children... So because of that I am hella patient and understanding making it easy for me to play my part not overstep my boundaries and give her her space and time to heal and come around on her own time.
Don't get me wrong it's hard as fuck some days especially when I see my baby moved or bothered by some of things she says and does. But him and the children are the most important to me, that's why I want the best for her.
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Well it’s not a bit baby mama it’s a bitter baby daddy. Ok recently he told my 12 year that he not taking her no where for her birthday cause she didn’t text him back. 😬Now, it’s a long story but, I have gave him chance plus he haven’t really help this year but twice buying them a few groceries after I asked so many times.. my daughter s are like hurt from this but he treats them like they are his property. If they don’t call him he don’t call them but they have online school and chores to do and he gets mad. He said he would help but haven’t I been providing since they was born no support from him but broking promises but they still love him I don’t know what to do.🤦
Honestly bitterness comes from improper closure. To all the women that refer to themselves as bitter on this thread just give your self time to mentally detach. Move forward at your own pace. It will get sweet.
First off… I’m a bitter baby momma. I left off during a pandemic and unfortunately I put a restraining order on him. I say the worst so I never look like a victim of anything but I had to leave for wellness. The man bought did anything but keep his hands off me. I felt like in order for me to find happiness I had to leave. Mind you I am a teen mom. I work two jobs, pay rent, so I felt like asking for child support was stupid.
But now I’m in a situation where my child stays with them and afterwards I always seem to hear “your a b***” and “what I’m doing is to be egotistical “ but something along those lines.
How do you move past something like this without wanting revenge?
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My sons father had a baby with my cousin .. we not close cousins and dont know each other like that but we family and my son and his baby brother is brothers and cousins and I refuse to have my son over there playing some weird hill billy shit. I really dont know how to feel about this i mean i want them to be in each others lives but me and my cousin will never get along or be on the same page her and my lil cousin can stay over there. And o yea Im the bitter baby mom
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