How do you deal with bitter "babymamas"
I personally understand that some are hurt and it may take them a while to realize how amazing of a person I am. I know that I will be an amazing friend to her because I know that she can use it and because we're family. I genuinely want the mother of my mans children to be mentally, spiritually, emotionally, physically, and financially healthy for the sake of OUR children... So because of that I am hella patient and understanding making it easy for me to play my part not overstep my boundaries and give her her space and time to heal and come around on her own time.
Don't get me wrong it's hard as fuck some days especially when I see my baby moved or bothered by some of things she says and does. But him and the children are the most important to me, that's why I want the best for her.
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The guy that I with, his baby momma doesnt like me, because I told her to quit being so bitter because she kept the kid away from him, yes he was in prison but he got out and changing for the better, she left him while he was in prison. Yes yes he had a fucked up passed of hanging with the wrong people but then he changing for the better than give him a chance,but keeping the child away because he went to prison is fucked up on many levels.
I know what you should do Elyce Watson…Close your legs and shut the fuck up! How bout that?!
It’s sad to see a bitter women who turns the kids against their father and not take responsibility for her actions. Although he is no Angel, it bothers me to my core the shit that he goes through with his kids mothers!! For me I’m told it’s none of my business and it’s not for me to worry about. How do I handle that? How do I help someone who doesn’t care to take my advice or take my criticism especially when he’s in the wrong with me. His kids are young adults and he still has baby momma drama on a regular. How do I love him when it angers me to even have to deal with the bullshit. I love him and his kids and Ive always been there helping support them financially, spiritually and emotionally.
To me it all depends on how the man handles things. I was considered the bitter baby momma all because I wanted the father to get to know my daughter one on one without interference she was already 1 by the time he got out of jail and came around so she didn’t even know him, so why involve other females that he’s not even completely familiar with around my child. On top of that we were still having sex while he was in a relationship, which caused even more drama. So knowing the type of individual he was I knew my daughter deserved better. Something I should have thought about before having a baby yes I know. Bottom line I got involved with a little boy who didn’t know how to be a man my child suffered and still doesn’t know her father. He actually gave up all visitation rights stood in court and said I don’t want to do this give her everything.
Hi guy’s I been called the bitter baby mama but I always looked at it as I can’t be bitter because I’m asking you to step up. But I don’t let that bother me anymore because as long as I know I’m doing my part and my children are taken care of I can careless. I am his kids mother not his baby mama that’s how I look at it.
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